Same Channel Different Time: Quick Tips for Remarrying Your Ex

 Posted on March 31, 2014 in Divorce

This command performance may not guarantee you a gold star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, but if considering marrying your former spouse, you would be sharing center stage with the likes of Liz Taylor; Marie Osmond; NeNe Leakes, Pink and even Judge Judy, just to name a few.

Will it be a marriage of infinite syndication? Probably not. Psychology Today reports that over 60 percent of all repeat marriages are prone to cancellation. Evidence shows that repeat marriages fail quicker than the premiere episode. Lois Tarter, author of The Divorce Ritual and contributor to the Huffington Post, believes there are a few steps to be taken when contemplating Act II with your former spouse.

• Time – take it. Make sure all emotional wounds have healed. Confront and resolve any outstanding issues before the anticipated wedding date;
• Honesty is truly the best policy. Both of you will need to reestablish trust. Be open to accepting your responsibility for the failed first marriage;
• Children – take them into consideration. Hold off just a bit before informing the kids of your reconciliation their emotions may still be in turmoil;
• Counseling is likely a good idea. Consider individual, couples counseling or marriage classes. Keep all things topical on a regular basis. Avoid misconceptions and old habits.

If you are considering a second marriage with your former spouse, congratulations, break a leg. If you want to truly associate yourself with the likes of Liz, Marie, NeNe, Pink and Judge Judy, perhaps before taking your farewell performance, it may be in your best interest to contact an experienced Downers Grove family law attorney to discuss your options for drafting a prenuptial agreement to safeguard your financial assets, just in case your shining star fizzles out. The legal team at A. Traub & Associates understands the cosmic complexities of marriage and divorce. If you find yourself in the throes of either we can help. For those facing the dissolution of a marriage we will take the time to listen and address all of your concerns. For those planning a walk down the aisle, even if it is the second time around, we can discuss all benefits of drafting a prenuptial agreement to safeguard your financial assets and provide you with peace of mind. We offer consultations to those residing in DuPage, Will, Cook and Kane Counties. Contact us at 630-426-0196 today to learn more about your options.